We spent last month in California and most of it in Hawaii, visiting friends and family. Some we hadn't seen for two years or so and some for almost 5 and a half. It was such a nice reunion with all of those we saw and got to spend time with even though some we didn't get to see for very long, it was just nice to hug them and see them face to face.
George was with us for about a week and a half and then returned home while the kids and I stayed in Hawaii to spend a little more time with my dad. Although I loved every minute being there with him, I was also reminded of how much of a help George is to me. Things were just a lot harder without him there helping me with the kids. Little tasks seemed like huge chores like giving the kids dinner with no high chairs or booster seats, giving them baths, changing diapers, going shopping and then Lilly having to go potty and no one to watch Kawika or the stuff in my cart...I think you get the point. All the things I took for granted while I was home with George, I suddenly was very thankful for all his help. It was mentally and physically exhausting having to do EVERYTHING with and for the kids. I give a HUGE thumbs up and much respect for single parents of even just one child. Its a big responsibility to take upon yourself and and by yourself to put their needs above your own.
Lets not mention the flight back home by myself with the kids. I was so filled with anxiety and fear. I had so many people praying for me that I wouldn't break down as well as the kids. THANKFULLY, the kids were perfect and there were no meltdowns (that includes myself). People telling me how well behaved they were and me giving them a smile and saying thank you for the compliment, I'm thinking you have no idea how stressed I feel inside, I'd like to just crawl into the carryon compartment and hide until we get to our destination. However, by Gods grace and goodness he brought us all home safely with no problems whatsoever.
Goodbyes are hard because I always leave pieces of my heart with those that I love, but I have peace knowing that I will see them again one day soon. While its hard for me to leave my family and friends, it's also nice to be back safe and sound with in the comfort of my home. Here are some highlights of our trip. Enjoy and Aloooooooooooooooha!
